At last night's meeting of the new Guild for Civil Dialogue (our second), a participant said she read about us in a Chico Enterprise-Record editorial.
Thank you, Chico ER, for the work you do in helping us "Be the community you want to live in!"
The article is reproduced below.
Editorial: Can the ‘me’ be quiet so the ‘we’ is heard?
3/14/17, Chico Enterprise-Record
Books on humility. Role playing that emphasizes cooperation and finding common ground. University courses on improving civility and understanding.
These are the new building blocks of community. In the wake of the most vicious presidential election in recent history, people are aghast at the demise of civility and orderly disagreement.
But the descent started long before the election. It seems it’s how this country operates now.
Programs try to refresh the Golden Rule and emphasize that disagreement doesn’t boil down to “I’m right, you’re wrong.”
Communities are trying to salvage what’s left of old-fashioned values. They hope to set new standards, or rather go back to old standards that respected all sides.
Plenty of theories exist on why we abandoned courtesy and social responsibility. What launched it isn’t as important as how can it be slowed or even reversed. The pillars of ethics that guided our forefathers, from church to school to parents, don’t have the same roles as they did.
We see bad behavior everywhere.
It’s behind road rage. It’s responsible for booing, shout downs and aggression.
Blending in with the crowd, even if it’s a bad one, seems to work for many.
An organization in Paradise — Paradise Community Guilds — is facing the wave and hoping others will join in the resistance.
A meeting is planned at 4 p.m. Sunday at Norton Buffalo Hall, 5704 Chapel Dr. to talk about conducting life in a more civilized manner.
We’re pretty sure that thousands of meetings and conversations like this are happening throughout the country, but solutions seem to evade us.
Maybe it’s keeping the reminder of politeness in the forefront of our thinking.
Maybe it’s making note of poor behavior and avoiding it or using it as an example for our children.
How can we rein in that ego?
What will be the turning point to revive those old standards may be the expansion of organizations like the Paradise one.
We know churches, schools and parents are trying to make their own impact on reversing the course.
We applaud these conversations, classes and dialogue because this country’s future rests on our ability to get along.